Making Room for Connection
Sometimes the most meaningful moments in life happen when we simply make time to be together. Inspired by a conversation about bringing back the art of hosting, I reflect on the importance of connection, community, and the memories we create with the people in our lives.
Grief Doesn't Follow a Straight Line
We often think of grief as something we move through in stages, eventually arriving at acceptance. But grief rarely follows such a predictable path. A reflection on the five stages of grief, the expectations we place on ourselves and others, and why each person's experience deserves understanding and compassion.
What Is Done in Love Is Done Well
Life will call all of us to show up for the people we love, often in moments we aren't prepared for. We won't always get it right. But if we show up with love and do the best we can with what we know, perhaps that's all we can ask of ourselves.
We Need to Talk About Death
When someone we love wants to talk about dying, our instinct may be to reassure them or change the subject. But what might happen if, instead of turning away, we stayed in the conversation?
Three Things You Can Do Today for the People You Love
Preparing for the unexpected doesn't have to be overwhelming. A few simple steps today can make it much easier for someone you trust to step in and find what they need when life suddenly changes.
Who Would You Call?
Who would you call at 2:00 in the morning? Our support systems don’t have to come from one person—or even from family. The people who hold us up can be friends, neighbors, coworkers, family, or someone 1,000 miles away. What matters is knowing who your people are—and making sure they know, too.
When Guilt Comes From Love
There are an awful lot of “shoulds” in our lives. We should call more, visit more, help more, or somehow find more of ourselves to give. But what if some of that guilt isn't evidence that we've failed? What if, sometimes, it comes from love?
The Future We Imagined
We make plans and imagine the moments still ahead of us. But sometimes life changes the story. When that happens, we may find ourselves grieving not only what we've lost, but also the future we thought we would have.
Choosing What Matters
Before leaving for Norway, I chose not to schedule blog posts or social media updates. Instead, I gave myself permission to step away. Sometimes choosing what matters means giving ourselves permission to be fully present for the life we're living.
Before We Go
Packing for a new adventure has a way of inviting reflection. Before we rush into what's next, perhaps we need to pause long enough to appreciate where we've been, the people we've met, the lessons we've learned, and the moments that have quietly shaped us.
Grief Comes in Many Shapes and Sizes
When we hear the word grief, we often think of death. But grief comes in many forms—the loss of a beloved pet, the end of a marriage or friendship, an unexpected diagnosis, or a future that never unfolded as we imagined. Sometimes the first step toward healing is simply recognizing that what we're feeling is grief.
Growing Around Grief
What if grief doesn't actually become smaller over time? Inspired by an idea from Dr. Lucy Hone, this reflection explores how our lives can grow around our grief, allowing love, joy, and hope to exist alongside loss.
Holding Two Things at Once
Grief rarely asks us to feel just one thing. It often exists alongside gratitude, hope, excitement, and love. A reflection on making space for all of it.
The Traditions We Carry Forward
Family reunions have a way of reminding us that traditions are about more than gathering. They connect generations, preserve memories, and carry the best parts of the past into the future.
The Things We Don't See
Most days, we move through the world knowing very little about what the people around us are carrying. A reflection on compassion, grace, and remembering that everyone is facing something we may never see.
The Things We Carry
When we lose someone we love, it is easy to focus on what has been lost. Over time, we may begin to see the pieces of them we still carry—through our laughter, our traditions, and the ways they continue to shape our lives.
Movement Is Joy
Movement does not take away our grief or solve our problems, but it can carry us through difficult moments. A reflection on walking, healing, connection, and the wisdom that movement is joy.
Showing Up Without Knowing the Ending
When life feels uncertain, we often want reassurance that we are doing the right thing. A reflection on caregiving, grief, and the quiet courage of showing up day after day without knowing how the story ends.
The Rituals That Mark a Season
Opening the cottage each summer is more than a task—it’s a ritual. A reflection on connection, tradition, and appreciating the moments that quietly become memories.
When Grief and Peace Coexist
Grief and peace are not opposites. A reflection on carrying sorrow, gratitude, beauty, and love together through difficult seasons of life.