The Future We Imagined
We make plans and imagine the moments still ahead of us. But sometimes life changes the story. When that happens, we may find ourselves grieving not only what we've lost, but also the future we thought we would have.
Choosing What Matters
Before leaving for Norway, I chose not to schedule blog posts or social media updates. Instead, I gave myself permission to step away. Sometimes choosing what matters means giving ourselves permission to be fully present for the life we're living.
Before We Go
Packing for a new adventure has a way of inviting reflection. Before we rush into what's next, perhaps we need to pause long enough to appreciate where we've been, the people we've met, the lessons we've learned, and the moments that have quietly shaped us.
Grief Comes in Many Shapes and Sizes
When we hear the word grief, we often think of death. But grief comes in many forms—the loss of a beloved pet, the end of a marriage or friendship, an unexpected diagnosis, or a future that never unfolded as we imagined. Sometimes the first step toward healing is simply recognizing that what we're feeling is grief.
Growing Around Grief
What if grief doesn't actually become smaller over time? Inspired by an idea from Dr. Lucy Hone, this reflection explores how our lives can grow around our grief, allowing love, joy, and hope to exist alongside loss.
Holding Two Things at Once
Grief rarely asks us to feel just one thing. It often exists alongside gratitude, hope, excitement, and love. A reflection on making space for all of it.
The Traditions We Carry Forward
Family reunions have a way of reminding us that traditions are about more than gathering. They connect generations, preserve memories, and carry the best parts of the past into the future.
The Things We Don't See
Most days, we move through the world knowing very little about what the people around us are carrying. A reflection on compassion, grace, and remembering that everyone is facing something we may never see.
The Things We Carry
When we lose someone we love, it is easy to focus on what has been lost. Over time, we may begin to see the pieces of them we still carry—through our laughter, our traditions, and the ways they continue to shape our lives.
Movement Is Joy
Movement does not take away our grief or solve our problems, but it can carry us through difficult moments. A reflection on walking, healing, connection, and the wisdom that movement is joy.
Showing Up Without Knowing the Ending
When life feels uncertain, we often want reassurance that we are doing the right thing. A reflection on caregiving, grief, and the quiet courage of showing up day after day without knowing how the story ends.
The Rituals That Mark a Season
Opening the cottage each summer is more than a task—it’s a ritual. A reflection on connection, tradition, and appreciating the moments that quietly become memories.
When Grief and Peace Coexist
Grief and peace are not opposites. A reflection on carrying sorrow, gratitude, beauty, and love together through difficult seasons of life.
The Life That Leads Us There
A reflection on friendship, presence, and the quiet ways a life lived with intention shapes what comes at the end.
Isn’t This What Family Is For? — Part II
Isn’t this what family is for? Sometimes the answer is yes—but family dynamics, history, and the weight of loss can make even the most well-intentioned support feel overwhelming.
Isn’t This What Family Is For?
A reflection on family, responsibility, and why support can help create space for presence during life’s most difficult moments.
The Quiet Work of Being Present
A reflection on the quiet work of being present and why, in life’s hardest moments, simply being there may matter most.
When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned: Finding Steadiness in the Unexpected
A reflection on navigating unexpected loss or illness and how support, clarity, and intention can help you move through life’s most difficult moments.
Why Planning Before Life Changes Matters
A reflection on intentional living and why planning ahead creates clarity, reduces stress, and protects meaningful moments during life’s most difficult transitions.